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He Is Not Sincere

April 12, 2008 04:55, 337 views

Dear Aunty Funke,

My name is Oyinda. I had a disagreement with my boyfriend because he said that we must sleep together before he has anything to do with me. I am confused because I am still a virgin and don’t want to be corrupted. Please advise me.

Dear Oyinda,

A guy who does not respect you and will not have anything to do with you until you sleep with him, may not really be in love with you. He probably just wants to use and dump you. If indeed he cares for you, then the love in his heart will keep him going and make the relationship work. Good luck.

Comments (13)

  1. Oluwaseun Babalola

    27 May 2008 11:42

    Hello Oyinda,
    I am a guy like ur boyfriend, i dont support the ideal of have sex before marriage is very roug.
    Even God dislike, 4 ur information ur body is the temple of God, pls and pls dont mess with it.
    am begging in the name of our Lord JESUS chirst…
    if u have any question pls send it to-
    = abrahamoluwaseun@yahoo.com

  2. I care

    30 May 2008 11:31

    Hi Oyinda,
    I am very bold to tell you that the guy is after your body and once he get what he needed, he will sure dump you.
    A guy whom will not have respect for your feelings does not worth you.
    Love is not sex. If sex is love why do guys still dump the girls the slept with.
    Flee from him.

  3. Idoko J.

    13 June 2008 11:59

    Hi Oyinda,

    First & foremost, I will like you to read this portion from the Bible: Genesis 29 vs 18 & 20.
    You know what? True love is worth waiting for, if the guy truely loves, you why then is he in a hurry? let him wait till after the marriage, he should be a lucky guy to find someone like you. Once again, you need to be very wise & careful because the guy may be giving you test to see if actually you are not the cheap type of Girl who can give their body out easily. What if you grant his request thinking that you want to please him & after the show; you will be surprise that, the guy will tell you that; it is over between him & you because he thougth that you are a decent type but you are not & that he cannot be proud of you. Then; what are you going to do? To have your virginity back? too late. Baby Girl be wise.
    I advise you not to loose your virginity before marriage. For more advise contact me on: johnido2003@yahoo.com
    BEST OF LUCK

  4. Ruth aboko kun

    1 July 2008 20:00

    Oyinda,

    Eh hen..So fucking what?
    Welcome to the real world and join the club

  5. annex onuc

    17 July 2008 17:14

    PLS OYINDA DONT PAY ATTENTION TO RUTH?

  6. shola

    18 July 2008 08:19

    Pls dont allow this guy to deceive u. & besides just be very careful he might want to have his way by all means.Make sure you are not alone in any hidden place with him.Just take your time & be very prayerful.thanks & best of luck.

  7. Vitcorr

    21 July 2008 14:58

    hi dear, i know exactly how you feel about things like this. my advise is for you to sit him down and talk to him about what you want.
    the guy is only being human, u know how these things work. pray about it too.

  8. Lucy

    23 July 2008 09:44

    RUTH is notin but a Cheap Slut! PLEASE PAY NO ATTENSIONSION TO HER.
    Have a heart 2 heart talk with him,if he truely loves u he”ll Wait. GOOD LUCK!!!

  9. Bosun

    23 July 2008 19:06

    Hi dear. Pls be wise and take a walk from that guy, and be wiser by not contacting anyone who adviced you on this page, yet ask you to contact them for more advise through their email address. Whatever advise you have to give, pls give it on this arena and dont lure Oyinda into your own trap. Regards.

  10. Dexlar

    14 August 2008 (2 weeks ago) 14:39

    Hi Oyin,

    Follow ur heart. most of those advising u here cant do/take what they are all advising u 2 do. If it is ok by u, well but always remember that whatever u do 2day, u will give accounts of dem all on the day of judgement, and also dont contact anybody plz they r all wolves in human clothing. Cheers

  11. Angela Elegah

    Yesterday 16:55

    Hi Dear, my advice for you is dat u shold not give in to him cos most guys are like dat although, it is not easy as a woman to hold back herself but please try it and the man you are going to end up your life with will forever love u. your boyfriend is only trying to be human but don’t give out your viginity cos it is your pride.

  12. samuel

    Yesterday 17:09

    I am a born again christian but i dont think he is wrong by asking for that. U called him ur boyfriend. oxford dic calls a boyfriend or girlfriend a sex partner or romance partner. i think the right word shld be ur fiance. but if be, pls dont compromise your integrity for any reason. bcos the bible says keep the bed undefiled.To the glory of God i am a guy and i am proud to say i am a VIRGIN as well. To be deflowerd on wedding day .tanx

  13. UBABIKE RHODA OGE

    Yesterday 17:42

    Bravo my dear nothing like being a virgin on ur wedding day.ur husband wil value u 4 d rest of his life & there wil b no room 4

    suspicion,he wil really trust u.Pls keep ur virginity it’s ur pride.If ur boyfriend is n’t ready to wait 4 u pls move on bcos if he loves u he

    wil wait 4 u.Sex b4 marriage is n’t worth it.

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